It had been a long long time from my last entry.
I am done with my undergraduate studies with what i want.
And its time to move on.
To work or to further study is a tough and hard decision.
I had choosen to further study^^
Why? Not why. I gt no idea wat to choose @@
I did apply for both and i pray that God prepare one path for me,
Jz one enough, but nt asking me to choose, i am poor in choosing, lol
God close the door for work, i failed my interview
and open the door for further study to me,
i get my offer to do my PHD in Unimas.
Thx God, wat a clear path for me,
i believe he will continue to lead as he owez do in the past of my life.
The offer is indeed quite good,
I can apply my MyPHD under My Brain,
which can waive my school fees and i gt 2k++ monthly allowance,
this is more than enough for me,
sarawak expenses isnt that high,
my monthly allowance is even more than fresh graduate salary offer by some company.
I am really thankful for that.
The title that i do is abour kojic acid derivatives, schiff base..
its similar to my final year project.
I hope everything could go smoothly^^
The PHD start in September,
so currently i am growing worms and mushroom at home,
so called a rest before a good kick start XD
Most of my friend start their job,
i am quite jealous becz they start to earn money dy@@
Ok, nvm, be grateful Ms Carol!!
Ok, enough for my update,
it isnt my main point of today.
hahaa
The main point today is how do you define success and hapiness?
I had this idea to write this post is abour a commercial by petronas.
Its really a good one.
I gt a hard time last week,
because my uncle, who came back from oversea,
criticize why do i choose to further study instead of work?
and keep persuade me to go oversea.
I was very angry about that,
why dont you jz say something that can help ppl to move on,
They owez think that,
if you stay in msia then you are useless la,
if you go oversea, even you r a housewife like my auntie or his wife then also consider success
come on!! i dont see the points??
I know oversea is good, can earn a lot of $$,
I know you have make a lot of money and known to be 'very success',
There is owez good side and the bad side of a decision;
you left your parent behind, they are growing old alone,
one day you might regret that you didn spend enough time with them.
everyone have a right to choose their life path,
its about how to define sucess and hapiness,
so why you criticize?
Money is never enough for human,
Enough is good for me,
To stay in malaysia, doesnt mean that i am nt success,
i will hv my own professional career,
i can make money for my own living as well,
add on i owez have family around here, and we gt hapiness.
Your might success is in this coming 10-20 years time
becz you make a lot of money;
one day when your parents are gone or
your kids do the same thing to you,
you will found that your success are without hapiness;
but mine success perspective is about of 20-40 years later.
20-40years later, i will not regret of what i choose today,
becz i have both success and hapiness along the way.
Yes, you might come back once or twice a year;
but thk ab this,
how many years your parent left?
10years ? 20years?
then you will ab 20times? 30times to meet ur parents again^^
So, its ab choices of life;
i cnt deny that you are very sucessful in term of making money;
But again, everyone hv their own right to choose;
